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Te whawhai ki te pouri, nga wero ranei o te whatumanawa me te hinengaro?
Ko te toro ki te kaimatai hinengaro ka awhina i a koe ki te whai tohutohu tika me te kimi i nga waahi matapo, me nga tohutohu tika me nga maimoatanga e tika ana.
He maamaa te rapu kaitautoko, engari ka ara ake te wero ina kitea e koe he kaitoro hinengaro e tika ana maau. He maha nga waahanga hei whakaaro ake maana ka awhina i te mahi kimi psychotherapist pai rawa atu.
Whakaaturanga tohunga mo te rapu i te tohunga hinengaro pai
Anei tetahi tohungatanga tohunga me pehea te rapu i te psychotherapist pai rawa atu ko wai hoki e tutuki ana i o hiahia kua tautuhia i roto i te taiao ahuru.
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Ko te rapu i te tohunga hinengaro pai rawa atu ko te maarama ki o hiahia. I te wa e rapu ana koe i tetahi kaiwhakaora marena ko te tikanga ko te maarama ki nga matea o te tangata takitahi me te tokorua.
Ko nga momo ahuatanga e tika ana kia whakaarohia
- Papamuri haumanu
- Whakangungu
- Wātea
- Te ngawari o te urunga atu
- Matū- Ko te matū tetahi mea e aromatawaihia ana i roto i te ruuma i to hui.
Rapua tetahi kaitautoko e whakamahi ana i te huarahi e pai ana ki a koeTweet tenei
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Patai ki to hoa pono, tirohia ki te ipurangi ranei ki nga paetukutuku kaiwhakataki whakaora. Rapua te hunga e kapi ana o raru me te huarahi, he pai ki a koe te mea hei whakaora.
- Karangahia ka mahi uiui poto ki te waea mena kei te pai te taarua me te taera me te whakaaro tuatahi.
- Ngana mo nga waahanga 2.
- Aromātaihia.
Kaua e rapu i te kaiwhakawai pai rawa atu, rapua te kaiwhakaora pai mo 'KOE'Tweet tenei
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Ko te kaiwhakaora pai mo te tangata kotahi kaore pea ko te kaiwhakaora pai mo te katoa. He mea nui kia kimi i te kaitohutohu pai rawa atu maau, kia pai ai te painga o to wheako. Anei aku tino whakaaro e 4:
- Patai ki o hoa hoa mahi ranei mo te tuku korero e mohio ana ratou me te whakawhirinaki
- Panuihia te paetukutuku a te kaitautoko, ka maataki ranei i ta raatau riipene ataata ka arotake mena kei te hono koe ki o raatau korero
- Kia mahara ki nga mahi raupaparorohiko hei mahi maau, tae atu ki te utu, whakarite, me te waahi tari
- Whakaritehia he waahi tuatahi kia kite koe i to ahuatanga i roto i te ruuma me te kaiwhakaora. Kei te ite koe he hononga? Kei te haumaru koe, ka taea te whakaraerae?
Mahia taau rangahau i a koe e rapu ana i tetahi Hinengaro HinengaroTweet tenei
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Ko te 'Pai' he kaupapa na te mea e pa ana ki te whanaungatanga-kaitoha-kaitono. Ko nga mea e mahi ana ma te kaihoko kotahi i roto i te kaiwhakawhio kaore pea e mahi mo tetahi atu e hiahia ana ki te rapu i te hinengaro pai rawa atu. Hei tauira, akene he pai ki te kaihoko te hohe, tango i te kaiwhakawai rongoa, i te mea ka kitea pea e tetahi atu he whakauru, ka hiahia ki te kaiwhakawai e whakarongo ana, e tuku urupare ana.
Anei etahi tohu awhina kia kitea te kaitohutohu tika maau:
- Kupu o te Ngutu. I etahi wa ko te tono awhina mai i o maatau hoa me o matou whanau he mea uaua, ina koa, ki te hiahia koe ki te pupuri i to haerenga ki te kaitautoko.
- E kiia ana, karanga me te korero ki nga kaiwhakaora maha kia rite ki o hiahia. Pataihia nga patai he mea nui ki a koe kia mohio ko wai raatau i te waea.
- Kei te hokohoko ratou i nga waahi maha atu i te kotahi?
- Kei te kaha ratou ki te mahi papaho?
- Ka rapu ana koe me nga kupu matua ka kitea i te wharangi tuatahi, tuarua ranei? Mena ka whakaatuhia to kaiwhakaora i runga i nga mahere google te tikanga he rongonui te kaiwhakawhiowhi me etahi atu kaihoko e hiahia ana ki te mahi tahi me taua kaiwhakaora ano.
- Panuihia ta raatau paetukutuku!
Kia mahara he raihana te kaitohutohu e whiriwhiria ana e koe, me te mea pai ki a koeTweet tenei
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Anei etahi tohu awhina kia tiimata ki te rapu kaimatai hinengaro maau-
- Patai ki o hoa, ki etahi atu tohunga ranei kia whakaute koe mena kei te whai kupu tohutohu raatau. Kaua e whakawhirinaki noa ki a raatau taunakitanga, engari whakamahia hei timatanga.
- Arotakehia nga kaitautoko me nga paetukutuku kia kite mēnā ka hono atu koe ki o whakaahua, ataata, poraka, aha atu, ka uiui i etahi.
- Kia mahara koe ki te rapu ngaio whai raihana i roto i to kawanatanga. Ko te nuinga o nga raihana me whai Tohu Paetahi, he maha nga haora mo te tirotiro haumanu, me te whakamatautau kia raihana i raro i etahi momo Poari mo nga Ratonga Whanonga. Mena ka whakapau moni koe i te waa me nga rauemi mo te whakaora, tirohia tetahi tohunga ngaio.
- Kia mahara he pai koe ki to kaitautoko. Whakaritehia he korerorero ma te waea, ma te kanohi ranei kia kite mena kei te tangi ano ia ki a koe. Kei te pai koe ki o raatau taera, o raatau tuakiri, o raatau whakaaro me pehea te kawe koe ki to whainga. Kei te kite koe ka taea e koe te tuwhera me tenei tangata?
- Rapua he whakaaro mena kei te hiahia te kaihaumanu whakawhiwhia koe ki nga pukenga me nga tikanga hei awhina i a koe ki waho o te rongoa. He wa roa ka tae ki reira, engari kei te hiahia koe ki tetahi ka akiaki i to tu motuhake engari kaua ki te whakawhirinaki ki te kaiwhakawai i roto i te waa.
- Kua oti i to kaiwhakawai taau ake mahi? He maha o tatou ka uru ki te umanga na o taatau ake wheako o te koiora, he mea whakamiharo, mena kei te kaihaumanu me te mahi tonu i a raatau ake mahi. He kaitautoko hauora (kaore tatou katoa i te tino tika!) Ka kaha ake te awhina i a koe.
- Kaua e wehi ki te patai mo te whakamaaramatanga ka rite, me te aha ka tatari. Me whai mahere kia tae atu koe ki o whainga.
Te arotahi ki taau e tumanako ana ka riro mai i a koe i te wa e tohutohu ana koe i te wa e kowhiri ana koe i te kaiwhakawhanaoraTweet tenei
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Ko te rapu i te kaitohutohu hinengaro tino pai pea ko tetahi o nga whakatau nui ka mahia e koe i te ao. Kei te waiho e koe to hauora hinengaro me to hinengaro ki nga ringaringa o te tohunga e whakapono ana koe, hei awhina i a koe i etahi wa uaua o to ao, ki te whakarongo kaore he whakatau me te awhina i a koe ki te wikitoria i nga wero o te ao me te whakakaha i a koe kia pai rawa atu. whaiaro
I te wa e kowhiri ana koe i tetahi tohunga matakite kei konei etahi mea hei whakaaroaro maau-
- He mea nui ki te whakaaro mo o hiahia e pa ana ki nga mea e tumanakohia atu ana e koe mai i nga korero tohutohu, he aha nga mea e pa ana ki a koe, me te aha e hiahia ana koe ki te ahua o te whiwhi ratonga.
- He mea nui ano hoki ki rangahauhia te momo kaiwhakawhanaora e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi, me te tohu mena he tohunga te kaiwhakawai ki nga mea e hiahiatia ana e koe hei awhina ki te awhina, ki te whakatutuki, ki te haere ranei.
- Rapua a Google mo ta raatau paetukutuku me te panui i ta raatau whaarangi mo au, nga momo whaarangi ratonga, maataki i nga riipene ataata i whakairihia e raatau, tirohia kia tirohia mena he arotake kua whakairihia mai e etahi atu i mahi tahi me ratau.
- Kaua e wehi ki te karanga i nga kaitohutohu ko wai koe e whakaaro ana he pai ake, ka uiui ki a raatau; pataia nga patai e pa ana ki te awhina i nga kaihoko, ko nga tikanga e whakamahia ana e ratou, he aha te mea motuhake, paatai mo nga whakangungu motuhake e pa ana ki o raatau tohungatanga, me te paatai hoki i tenei patai tino nui, "me pehea e taea ai e koe te awhina i ahau mena ka tohua koe e au hei kaiawhina? ” Ko enei patai ka arahina koe ki te korerorero me te kaihaumanu, kia maarama koe mena he pai ia.
Tiwhiria tetahi kaitohutohu whai mana e mohio ana ki te whakamahi i o raatau mohiotanga i roto i nga mahiTweet tenei
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Anei etahi paatai hei whakaaro ake maau e awhina i a koe ki te kowhiri i te kaitohutohu tino pai maau-
- Whakaaro Tuatahi-He tangata pai ia? Kua roa to raua marenatanga? Kei te whakaaro nui ratau ki nga taangata kei tua atu o te umanga?
- Katahi ka whakaarohia o raatau tohungatanga mo te whakaora- He whakangungu ano ta raatau kei tua atu o te kura paerua. Ko te kaitautoko pai kua whakangunguhia ki nga mahi taunaki-taunakitanga. Ka rite ki te EMDR whara i aro atu ki te whakaora whanonga whanonga, whakangungu whakakapinga whakatoi, tauira tauhohenga whara me te maha atu.
- Kei te whai wheako raatau ki te whakamahi angitu i era whakaritenga-taunakitanga?
- Kei te whakaatu ta raatau mahi i nga taunakitanga mo te awhina i nga taangata whai pukenga whaihua? He maha nga mea e whakaakohia ana i te kura paetahi kia whai utu koreutu te haumanu. Ka utua e koe ki a ratau kia noho ka tii. Mo etahi e pai ana. Ko etahi e hiahia ana kia maha atu.
Tiwhiria he kaihaumanu e mohio ana ki te whakaora i nga take e tu ana koe a kei te waatea koeTweet tenei
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Ko te kaitautoko hinengaro pai rawa atu te mea pai ki a koe! Ka taea e koe te whakaheke i te mara ma te tuku korero takitahi, ngaiotanga ranei, me te rapu paetukutuku me te whaiaronga. Na, rapua tetahi e:
- Ka whakautu wawe i to waea me to uiui imeera ranei
- Ka taea te mahi me to kamupene inihua, mena ka taea
- Kei te waatea ia ka hiahia koe ki te whakarite i to waa whakarite
- Ka whakaatu i te pākiki ki te mea nui ki a koe
- Ka whakaatu i te mahana, te awangawanga, me te tikanga, tohungatanga
Whiriwhiria he kaitautoko e hiahia ana koe ki te noho tahi me iaTweet tenei
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Ko te kowhiri i te psychotherapist tika maau ka rite ki te maka i te kaiwhakaari tika mo te mahi whakangao. Rapua tetahi kaore i te tika mo te mahi, engari me tetahi e hiahia ana koe ki te whakapau wa roa. Te wa piri. Anei etahi aratohu hei awhina i a koe mo to kaupapa tuku.
- Kaitiaki-Ahakoa he aha te momo rangahau e mahia ana e koe hei kimi i te kaiwhakaora tika, kia maumahara kei te hiahia koe ki tetahi e kii ana kia haumaru koe ki te whakahaere i nga riri karearea o to koiora. I mua i to tiimata i to piiraa, whakatau he aha taau e hiahia ana mai i to hoa tirohanga kia tumanako atu ai ki a raatau me nga momo whakaraerae o koe.
- Korero-Patai atu ki o hoa, mema o te whanau, hoa mahi, taakuta, me nga baristas o te rohe mo nga kaiwhakawai i mahi ai ratau. Kaore he rangahau a nga kaihoko e patu i te korero ora, i a ia ake. Ma tenei ahua tuku ka mohio koe ki te taiao taiao e hangai ana e te kaiwhakawhana hauora / kaiwhakaari haumanu mo a raatau kaihoko, mena he pai ranei mo koe. Kia tupato kaua ki nga korero a te tangata e patai ana koe mo tana kaitautoko, engari tirohia nga mea kaore e kii (hei tauira, te reo o to raatau reo, te ahua o o raatau kanohi, te ahua o o raatau kanohi).
- Tirotiro-Ko nga rarangi kaitautoko aipurangi, nga korero me nga paetukutuku, ka whakaatu ki a koe i nga whakangungu, nga tohu, me nga waahanga motuhake o ia haumanu – he mea nui kia mohio koe. Engari ko te mea nui pea, kei te hiahia koe ki te rapu tohu mena he aha te ahua o te noho me te korero ki taua tangata. E pehea ana a raatau whakaahua ki a koe? He pehea te ahua o o ratau reo i roto i nga tuhinga me nga panui blog kua tuhia e raatau? He pehea te ahua o to ratou reo tino i nga paapata me etahi atu rekoata? He aha te ahua o o raatau uara me o raatau hiahia, aa, me pehea te awe o te whanaungatanga o tetahi ki tetahi? Me pehea e kite ai tenei tangata ia koe ano he tangata noho hapori, whanaungatanga – kaua ko te "manawanui hauora hinengaro"?
- Hui-Ka oti ana i a koe te whakauru i te raarangi poto o nga kaiwhakawai e whakaarohia ana e koe, whakaritea kia tutaki ki a raatau – i te waa o te whakaari, ka kiia tenei ko te whakamatautau. He maha nga kaitautoko kei te tuku korero waea koreutu ki a koe kia whai waahi koe ki te paatai i a raatau paatai, a, ko te mea nui ake, kia mohio koe kei te pehea koe e korero ana ki a raatau. I tenei waa, he mea nui kia paatai koe mena koinei tetahi e hiahia ana koe ki te uru atu ki nga mea kaore e mohiotia ana i runga i te haerenga tino whakarereke. Ki te penei, hoatu ki a koe te mea angitu ki te whakamatau i etahi waahanga. Me whakawero kia mahi koe i nga mataku tuatahi me nga awangawanga o te noho i te taha o te kaiwhakawai kua whiriwhiria e koe. Ko te kowhiri ki a koe ko te mahi tonu me taua tohunga haumanu, ki te whakamatautau ranei ki tetahi atu. Engari kia mahara he rite ki te mahi toi, ko te rongoa haumanu ehara i te mea hei whakatau noa ko wai koe e whakaaro ana, engari hei awhina i a koe ki te whaanui i nga mea e taea ana e koe.
- Matū-Ko te Matū te mea e aromatawaihia ana i roto i te ruuma i te huihuinga.
Me whai whakaaro koe ki nga waahanga maha hei kowhiri i te kaiwhakaora pai mo 'KOE'Tweet tenei
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Kaore rawa he psychotherapist pai rawa atu, kei kona tetahi ka pai ake maau.
Nga waahanga hei whakaaro mo te kaiwhakaora pai mo koe ake-
- Tuatahi, ka whakaaro atu ahau ki a koe mahi rangahau iti mo te momo haumanu e hiahia ana koe (patai ki nga hoa, ki nga whanaunga, ki nga momo haurongo hinengaro google ranei). He maha nga kaitautoko e whakamahi ana i te rongoa korero tuku iho engari ko etahi e hangai ana ki te waatea (e mahi ana me te tinana - ahakoa, kaore e pa, e kiia ana ko te mahi a tinana). Kei reira nga kaihaumanu e tohaina ana nga tikanga motuhake, penei i te EMDR, he huarahi tenei hei tukatuka i te aituā. Ae ra, me maarama koe kua raihana te kaitohu. Akene me whakatau e koe mena e whakaae ana koe ki to inihua me / he aha ranei te utu mo to utu?
- Engari ko te mea nui ko te korerorero waea, ki te hui tuatahi ranei me te kaiwhakaora me ngawari noa 'Whakawhirinaki ki to puku'. Tukuna to whakaaro ki te arahi i a koe mena ko te ahua o tenei tangata he tangata whai mana, ko wai hoki ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki. Ka tutaki pea koe ki tetahi atu kaiwhakaora mena kei te ruarua koe, ki te whakataurite i to wheako. He whakatau nui tenei, me whakapau kaha, ki te kimi i te kaiwhakawai tuuturu e whai hononga nui ana koe.
Whaaia to puku
Ana hei whakaaro whakamutunga, whaia to whakaaro ina ngana koe ki te kimi i te hinengaro pai rawa atu. Ka mutu o rangahau, paatai paanui me te paanui i o awangawanga, ko te toenga kei a koe ake.
Me matua pato koe ki to kaupapa kia waea atu ai. Akene kei te miharo koe, ahakoa i muri i te whakaweto i tetahi kaiwhakatikatika pai, me nga tohu tino pai, he aha koe kaore ai e tau.
Mena he ahua he, ahakoa nga take kaore e taea te whakamaarama, makahia ka rapu tonu mo te tangata e pai ana te ahua me te wheako ki a koe.
Ko to whakamarie te mea tuatahi!