Toka Te Manawa
- He momo taikaha o te korero mo te marenatanga
- Te whakauru atu ki te kohatu kohatu me te kore e aukati i a koe
- Te whakapae i a koe kia waiho hei kaikiri mana
- Te whakakore ki te haere ki te whakaora
- Ko te ahua o te korero whakawhiti korero-kore e poipoi i te mauahara
- Ko te mahi tuatahi ki te whakapai ake i o korero
- Whakaarohia kei te korero koe i tetahi mea ki to hoa rangatira, whakaarohia a raatau whakautu
- Whakamahia he wa ki te whakaaro i roto i te whakautu tika ki to hoa rangatira
- He mea nui kia tiaki koe i a koe ano
He pukuriri to hoa rangatira? Akene ko to taiohi tena? Ko te nuinga o aku e korero nei ka pa ki nga hoa faaipoipo me nga taiohi.
He momo taikaha o te korero mo te marenatanga
Kei te pouri koe i te wa kaore o whakautu i au patai whaihua ka mutu te ngana ki te korero? Kei te riri koe mo to raatau kaha ki te huri i nga mea kia kitea ai i te tuatahi ko te raru e pa ana ki tetahi mea i mahia e ratou e hiahia ana koe ki te korerorero ki a raatau kua riri katoa koe?
Mena he ahua mohio tenei, ka taea pea kua marenatia koe ki tetahi e whai mana ana ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero mo te marena.
Ko tetahi atu tauira ka pa ki tetahi ahuatanga i he ai koe ki a koe.
Ko te tangata e whakamahi ana i te momo korero whakawhiti-kore he kaha ki te waiho hei patunga.
Te whakauru atu ki te kohatu kohatu me te kore e aukati i a koe
Ka taea e te hoa rangatira ngawari te aukati i tetahi korerorero ma te kore e pai ki te korerorero i nga mea ka haangai ia koe, na te kore o te awangawanga, ka whai koe i tetahi tautohe.
Akene ka penei ta raatau korero: “penei tonu taau e karanga ai, e hamama ana, e pukuriri ana! Kaore koe i te mohio ki te wa e mutu ai-au patai. ” Ranei “kaore he mea hei korero. Mahi tonu koe i tenei. Kei te rapu raru koe. ”
Akene ka uru atu ratau ki te Kohatu-kowhiri ki te korero ki a koe me te karo i o ngana ki te korero ki a ratau ma te noho puku, me te aukati i te karo i a koe. Ko o tuhinga kaore i te whakautu mo etahi haora kaore pea i te whakautua, he iti noa te korero, ka pa atu pea ki a koe ki te korero ki etahi mema o te whanau, penei i o tamariki.
Te whakapae i a koe kia waiho hei kaikiri mana
Ka whakaae pea ratau ki te mahi i tetahi mea, kaua e mahi, ana ka aro atu koe ki a raatau, ka tohe ratou kei te whakahaerehia e koe.
Na ko nga korero kino kei i a koe to Hoera Uru-Aggressive.
Ko te mea pai kei kona ake etahi huarahi hei whakapai ake i a koe i taau ake momo korero ki a ratau kia kore ai e mau te hopu-kore. He mea nui kia piki ake to maarama ki te tauira koretake o to hoa rangatira.
Ko te haangai-kore e hangai ana ki te mana whakahaere.
Na te kore korero me te whakahoki i te aro ki a koe e mahi nei, ka kaha ake to raatau kaha ki te aukati i nga korero whakahee.
Te whakakore ki te haere ki te whakaora
Ko te mutunga mo te hoa riri taahore-kore, ko te mea e awangawanga ana, e riri ana, a, i etahi wa na te korikori, he pukuriri ta raatau korero. Ko te take taketake kua ngaro i te mea kei te aro inaianei ki o whanonga kino.
Anei te waahanga pai rawa: ka whakaparahako tonu ratou ki te haere ki te whakaora. Ka whakaae ana ratau, ka whakaae raatau na te mea ka mohio te kaitautoko ki a koe ko koe te mea he. Ae ra, i te wa ka toro atu korua ki nga tohutohu o te marenatanga, akene he maha nga he i mahia e korua i roto i a korua whakawhitiwhitinga me to hoa rangatira-kore.
Ko te ahua o te korero whakawhiti korero-kore e poipoi i te mauahara
Ae ra, i nga hononga katoa, ma nga taha e rua nga kawenga e pa ki nga take kei o raatau hononga. Engari ano hoki, he waahanga o te huringa korerorero kaikorikore i ahu mai i te kaha kore o te tangata i roto i te koretake, te pakaru o te korero, me te mauahara mai i o raatau hoa.
Na, me aha?
He tino uaua te whakaaro ki te hoa rangatira e whakamahi ana i nga taatai-kore. Ka mutu, kaore e taea e taatau te whakahaere i etahi atu taangata, ko taatau anake te whakahaere.
Ko te mahi tuatahi ki te whakapai ake i o korero
Na ko te mahi tuatahi ki te whakapai ake i o korero ki te tangata pukuriri ko te ako me pehea te whakautu engari kaua e aro atu ki a raatau whanonga. Kei te mohio au, he wero!
Engari ki te whakaharatau koe ki te whakaheke i to urupare i te waa kaore koe i te raru, i te pouri ranei, ka iti ake to urupare ka tino raru ana koe.
Ko te kore e urupare ka kaha ki a koe.
Ka kitea ana e koe te noho puku, te karo ranei i to hoa rangatira, me tango e koe he wa ki te tango i te manawa, ka arotake i te hinengaro he aha te tikanga o te korero ki to hoa rangatira.
Whakaarohia kei te korero koe i tetahi mea ki to hoa rangatira, whakaarohia a raatau whakautu
Whakaarohia te pikinga, te piki haere o te pawera, me te mutunga, whakaarohia kei te haere koe i te mamae, ka mauiui, ka koa hoki.
Tena, patai ki a koe ano, me haere tonu koe me te tauira o mua, he mea pai ranei kia marino koe, kia roa to whakaaro mo te whakautu tika, me te whai waahi.
I etahi wa, ka kite te hoa rangatira pukuriri i te tawhiti i tangohia e koe ka neke atu ki a koe. Kaore e mahi i nga wa katoa, engari he mahere pai ake tena i te ahuatanga o te piki haere, te pouri, me te tawhiti i tangohia e to hoa rangatira.
Whakamahia he wa ki te whakaaro i roto i te whakautu tika ki to hoa rangatira
Mahia kia poto te whakautu me te whakaputa i o whakaaro.
Kia mohio to hoa rangatira kei te whakaaro koe, i te mea e tokorua ana koe, kei te piri koe i roto i te huarahi korero kore awhina. Korero mo nga mea ka taea e korua ki te whakarereke i tena.
Tukuna to hoa rangatira kei te pirangi koe ki te whakarongo ki o raatau riri ki a koe. Ka taea pea kaore tenei e awhina nui, ana ka kore pea to hoa rangatira e whakaae ki te haere ki nga tohutohu a nga tokorua.
He mea nui kia tiaki koe i a koe ano
Mena kaore to hoa wahine e haere ki te whakamaimoa ki a koe, ka tino taunaki atu ahau kia haere ko koe anake. Ka tūtohu ano ahau ki te panui i etahi o nga pukapuka pai i tuhia e nga kaiawhina kia pa atu ki te hoa rangatira pukuriri.
He mea nui kia mau ki a koe ano, kaua e tuku i te kaha o te mahi, me te whakamahi i nga rautaki whakatau pai ake, ko te tumanako me te tautoko o te kaiwhakawai pai.