Toka Te Manawa
- 1. Whakahaungia to hoa rangatira me o raatau ngahau
- 2. Kaua e wehi ki te noho wehe
- 3. Kia whakaute
- 4. Kia pono
- 5. Whakaritehia
Ko te whai whakangahau he mea nui ki te nuinga o tatou. Ki te kore te hokomaha e hoki ki muri, ko te nuinga o taatau kua heke rawa atu ki te hoha. Ka marena ana koe, kaore to ao i te kaupapa takitahi; me wehe e koe to wa me to aro ki waenga i a korua ko to hoa.
1. Whakahaungia to hoa rangatira me o raatau ngahau
He maama ake te rapu wa ki te whai i o momo arearea ki te peera ano to hoa. He maha nga hoa faaipoipo kua tutaki ma te mahi ngahau, ma te hiahia ranei, no reira i etahi wa he mea noa te whakauru tetahi ki tetahi. Heoi, i te wa kaore o korua ko to hoa rangatira e ngahau tahi, me akiaki koe kia kimihia e raatau ta raatau ake. Ka taea e koe te tono i nga wa katoa kia uru mai ki a koe, heoi, engari ko etahi o nga marena e waatea ana te waa wehe, ana ko etahi e hiahia ana kia noho mokemoke ratau i roto i o raatau koiora. E korero ana mo ...
2. Kaua e wehi ki te noho wehe
He mea noa te hiahia ki te noho wa nui ki te taha o to hoa rangatira, ina koa ka marena noa koe. Engari he mea nui kia mohio ki te uara o te whakapau waa ki te wehe tetahi i tetahi. He mea tino nui maau to korua ki te whai mahi, ki te whai ranei i tetahi mea ka taea e koe te haere ina hiahia ana tetahi o koutou i etahi wa. Mena ka tautohe koe me to hoa rangatira (me nga taane pai rawa atu), ka nui te awhina mena he whakangahau ta korua ka taea e koe te huri hei whakatau marie.
3. Kia whakaute
Mo te nuinga o nga taangata, ko o raatau kaingakau he mea nui ki o raatau koiora me o raatau tuakiri; ka waiho ano hei turanga mo te umanga. No reira ko te ngahau a te tangata ka waiho hei mea tino nui ki a ia. Heoi, mena he mea nui ki a koe to mahi ngahau, me te hiahia koe kia whakaute to hoa rangatira ki tera, me whakaute hoki koe ki o raatau hiahia me o raatau hiahia. Kia mahara ki te mea kaore koe i te whakaraupapa i taau arearea ki etahi atu ohautanga ki to hoa rangatira me te manaaki i o raatau hiahia me te whakaute e hiahia ana koe.
4. Kia pono
Kaua rawa koe e tarai atu ki te whai muna i to whakangahau. Mena kei te mahi koe i tenei, kaore e kore ka mate koe kia teka ki te tinihanga i to hoa rangatira ranei. Kia pono tonu koe ki to hoa, ina koa ka pa ana ki o hiahia me o hiahia, me pehea te whakapau o wa. Ko te poipoi i te whakawhirinaki he waahanga nui o tetahi hononga, me whai waahi koe ki te whakakaha i a koe. Ko te tuuwhera me te pono mo o mahi ngahau te huarahi ngawari ki te whakauru atu ki tenei.
5. Whakaritehia
Ko tetahi waahanga nui o te hononga angitu me te wa roa ko te kaha ki te whakaraupapa. Mena ka whakaarohia e koe to mahi whakangahau hei waahanga nui i roto i to koiora, kia mohio kei te mohio to hoa rangatira ki tenei. I te wa e whakaatu ana koe i to hiahia me te kaha ki te whakaraupapa i to waa, ka ngawari ki te tautoko a to hoa.
Ka marena ana koe, ka kitea e koe kaore o waa nui ki te whai i o hiahia. Heoi, i te wa e whai whakaaro ana koe me to pono ki to hoa rangatira, me maama noa ki te whakarite taima mo to mahi whakangahau.