Toka Te Manawa
- 1. Kei te whakaaro tonu koe
- 2. Ka kite koe i a raatau i to heke mai
- 3. Ko ratou nga waahanga pai o to ra
- 4. Ka whakaraupapa koe i a raatau
- Kia tupato kei whakapoauau mo te aroha
- Na, he aha te patai tika hei patai?
- Me pehea te mohio kei te aroha tatou ki tetahi?
- 1. E mohio ana koe na te mea kua whakatau koe ki te aroha
- 2. Me mohio koe na te mea he mahi te mahi- te mahi o te aroha
- 3. Me mohio koe na te mea ahakoa kaore koe e hiahia ki te aroha ki a raatau, ka aroha tonu koe ki a raatau
Kia tuuturu tatou, e te Iwi! He aha te take kaore ai e taea e te tangata te mohio? He aha te take i raru ai a Google i enei patai? Me pehea te mohio mena kei te aroha koe?
Anei te pono.
Ko te nuinga o nga tohutohu mai i nga kitenga a Google he wairangi noa iho, he whakapohehe noa iho hoki. Tangohia nga tauira urupare i tae mai i raro nei me pehea e mohio ai kei te aroha koe ki tetahi.
1. Kei te whakaaro tonu koe
Ki te kore e kitea e koe he kino tenei tohutohu, katahi kaore pea i te pono to whanaungatanga.
Mena he pono he tino tangata kei roto i to hinengaro, ka tohu pea kaore koe i tino aro ki etahi atu mea nui. Na te aha?
Ko te aroha pono kia uru ki te ora tonu, kaua ki te tango i te reira. Kaore i te tino kaha engari he marino.
2. Ka kite koe i a raatau i to heke mai
Ko te tikanga me uru ki roto? Mena he roa te wa e wawata ana koe mo to ao kei te heke mai, ka kite koe kei te neke koe ki Switzerland hei kaimahi hipi / koati, he tikanga me penei?
He aha te whakaaro kino ai tenei tohutohu?
Ko te raru kua huri ke te iwi i te aroha ki roto i te kemu morehu, penei i te moemoea. Ko te ine i nga hoa taapiri ma te pehea e uru ai ki tenei moemoea he whakapohehe noa, kaore ano hoki te mehua o te aroha.
Mena ka kite koe i a ratau a muri ake, kei te pai. Engari, kaore i tika na te mea ka oti i a raatau te pikitia. Ko etahi o nga tohutohu he uaua ake i ta nga kaipanui e kii ana, engari ka tino whiua ki a maatau.
Anei tetahi tauira.
3. Ko ratou nga waahanga pai o to ra
Ana, ka patai atu pea maatau ki a koe mo te ahua o etahi atu waahanga o to ra.
He mea pai noa iho tenei mena kei te pai koe i to koiora me tenei wahine whai hoa, taane ranei, ka taapiri atu.
Ma teera, ka wini koe.
Engari, he kino pea ki a koe mena ka kino koe ki to koiora me te whakamahi i tenei hoa pea hei oasis. He pai ke ki te whakakao.
Anei ano tetahi.
4. Ka whakaraupapa koe i a raatau
Kei te tino awangawanga koe mo o raatau hiahia me o raatau matea ana ka mahi noa kia kore e haukotia koe.
Engari, pouri mo koe mena ka haangai koe i o hiahia ake ka hiahia mo raatau, me waiho to uara ki to kaha ki te whakaahuru i a raatau.
Kia tupato kei whakapoauau mo te aroha
Mena ka kitea e koe he rere ke i etahi atu, whakamatao mo ratou. Mena he pai ake ki a koe i o raatau ahua, tera pea ka tumanako atu koe.
Ano hoki, ki te hiahia koe kia koa ratou, kia ora. Engari, ko te nuinga o taatau e hiahia ana kia koa nga tangata katoa. Kaore ano mo te aroha. Mena ka whakaihihia koe e raatau ki te waahanga pai ake mo koe, kua tata te huarahi koe.
Ko nga tauira kawenga kua pa ki o raatau kaupapa.
Na, he aha te patai tika hei patai?
Ko te aroha ki tetahi me te aroha ki tetahi he mea ke.
Ko te 'aroha ki a' he mea whakaahuru noa iho tena, kaore noa iho i te aro atu ki te tino aroha. Na, ko ta te iwi e paatai ana me pehea te mohio kei te aroha tatou ki tetahi, kaore i te aroha ki a raatau.
Me pehea te mohio kei te aroha tatou ki tetahi?
Inaianei kua maarama koe, he pai tenei waahanga mo koe.
1. E mohio ana koe na te mea kua whakatau koe ki te aroha
Ko te aroha ehara i te kare, engari he whakatau.
Kaore koe e rongo, kei te mahi koe. Ko te aroha he mahi, ehara i te kare-a-roto. He mahi whakatau, i ia wa, i ia wa. Ka whakatau koe ki te mahi ano.
Na, kei te mohio koe he aroha koe ki tetahi na te mea i whakatau koe, i runga i te whakaaro me te mohio.
2. Me mohio koe na te mea he mahi te mahi- te mahi o te aroha
Ko te aroha ehara i te kupu noa. Me whakapau moni koe, whakapau kaha.
Mena he aroha koe ki a raatau, kaua e kino ki te mohio. Kaua e raweke, kia hae, kia iti, kia rapu utu ranei mo raatau.
Mena he aroha koe ki a ratau, kaua e whakaarohia he pukuriri o raatau hiahia, kia kanapa ranei ratou ki a raatau me o raatau aroha hei utu. Ka pumau to haumarutanga me te kore e hiahia kia pumau tonu.
Mena he aroha koe, ko o raatau tirohanga te mea nui, a ko o raatau hiahia ka riro maau. He mea nui ki a koe to raatau hiahia. Kua rite koe ki te manaaki me te manaaki i a raatau, ki te whakaae me te tuku kia uru atu raatau ki a koe.
3. Me mohio koe na te mea ahakoa kaore koe e hiahia ki te aroha ki a raatau, ka aroha tonu koe ki a raatau
He tirohanga noa ki te kite he maha nga taangata e kii ana he aroha kei te pai nga mea, pai, maama te rangi, ka marino nga wai.
Otira ka pa ana te tupuhi, ma raatau katoa.
Mena he riri koe, he taupatupatu ranei, a ko to whaainga he kirimana me te kore e kowhiri i tetahi toa, he tino aroha koe ki tera tangata.
Kia mohio koe e aroha ana koe ki tetahi mena kaore koe e raweke, tiaki me te kore ahuru, kaua e mauahara, kaua e pupuri i te kaute kino atu ranei, kaua e whakaaro ki te 'whakahoki i to aroha' hei huarahi whakahaere i te whiu. Ki te whai koe kia maarama ki tetahi i mua i te maarama, ka aroha koe ki taua tangata.
Ko te aroha ka rite ana ki te whakararu, ki te whakapaha, ki te murua me te mahi peera i runga i te pahi kotahi.
Ko te aroha ina taea e koe te aroha ki tetahi ahakoa kua whara koe. Ko te aroha ina taea e koe te whakahonore me te whakaute i o raatau hiahia me o raatau hiahia ahakoa kei roto ko te 'wehenga.'
No reira a muri ake, maumahara ehara i te penei me pehea te mohio mena kei te aroha koe engari, me pehea te mohio kei te aroha koe ki a raatau. Kei te mohio koe e aroha ana koe na te mea ka whakatau koe. Ka uru atu ki te mahi, ka wini i nga wa katoa.