Toka Te Manawa
- Ko te korerorero korero me te korero korero ehara i te mea tika
- A faaitoito te tahi i te tahi
- Kia maarama ki te reo o tetahi ki tetahi
- Tukuna kia mohio he mea nui ta raatau
- Tukuna kia mohio kei te mauruuru koe mo o raatau takoha
Kia pai ai te noho me te tau o te noho o te marenatanga, me kaha koe ki te whakapai ake i to hononga me to hoa rangatira. Ko te marena hauora he mea nui mo te oranga o te tangata, na reira ko te mea nui kia mohio korua ko to hoa rangatira tetahi ki tetahi. Ko te marenatanga kei i te pono, i te aroha i te aroha, me te korero nui. Ahakoa te nuinga o te waa kaore i te aro ki muri, engari, he waahanga nui o te oranga marena.
Ko te korerorero korero me te korero korero ehara i te mea tika
I a korua e korerorero ana me o korua tino nui, me te tohatoha i o whakaaro, kare, me o korua whakaaro ki a korua ano ka mohio o korua ki a korua ano i te hohonu me te hohonu o te hononga.
Kaore tenei whakawhitinga korero i te herea ki te korero korero noa; kia angitu te noho o te marenatanga kia ahei koe me to hoa rangatira ki te korero korero kore hoki. Ko te korerorero kore korero kei roto i to kanohi me to tinana. Kia maarama koe ko te hononga pono o to korua hoa rangatira ka ngawari ki te whakaputa i o korua whakaaro i a korua e korerorero ana ki a korua ano.
Ko te mea pai ki o pukenga korero. Kia pono o korua, kia kaha hoki te tiro ki nga mea e pai ake ai to noho. Kei raro nei etahi huarahi hei whakauru i nga korero pai ki to marena.
A faaitoito te tahi i te tahi
Kia maarama koe mo te whanaungatanga hauora he mea nui kia akiaki koe i a korua ano kaua ki te whakahe i tetahi ki tetahi i nga wa katoa ka pa ki a koe. Ko tenei momo korerorero pai e hiahia ana koe ki te whakahaere i nga ritenga e whai ake nei; te ngawari ki a raatau ano, te whakarongo ki a raatau ano me te whakamana i a raatau ano.
Ma te akiaki tetahi ki tetahi, ka taea e koe te whakatipu angitu i to hononga. Ko nga kupu me nga tohu whakatenatena hei awhina i te whakaoho i te whakaaro kei te whakapono tetahi ki a koe. Kia mohio he nui te rereketanga o te whakamoemiti tetahi ki tetahi me te akiaki tetahi i tetahi.
Kia whiwhi whakamoemiti, me whiwhi koe, ahakoa ko nga kupu akiaki e hoatu noa ana hei momo tautoko. Mena ka kite koe i tetahi mea pai mo era atu mea nui, kei te nuinga o te iwi e kite ana engari kaua e whakahua, kia mahara ki te kii atu ki a raatau. Ma te akiaki i to hoa rangatira ka awhina i a raatau ki te whakarereke i o raatau tirohanga, a ka pa ano ki to whanaungatanga.
Kia maarama ki te reo o tetahi ki tetahi
Me maarama koe ki nga tohu aronganui e hoatu ana ki a koe e to hoa. Kia maumahara ki to raatau reo tinana, ki o raatau reo, tirohia mena kei te titiro kanohi to hoa ki a koe kaore ranei. Mena ka kite koe i te ahua ohorere o to hoa faaipoipo te whakaraerae ranei, me aata aro atu ki a raatau. Kaua e tino taikaha, kia kaha ranei. Engari, me titiro koe ki te whakamohio atu ki a raatau kei kona koe mo raatau mena ka hiahia raatau.
Tukuna kia mohio he mea nui ta raatau
Kia mahara kaore he marena tino pai. He maha tonu nga waahanga ka taea te whakapai ake. Na kia pai te noho o te marena, me arotake e koe enei waahanga me te aro nui ki a raatau.
Me whakaatu e koe ki to hoa he mea nui ki a koe o raatau whakaaro me o raatau kare a roto. Kia mahara, i te wa e korero ana koe me to hoa, ka titiro kanohi koe ki a raatau kia mohio ai raatau he mea nui ki a koe o raatau kare a roto me o raatau whakaaro.
Kia tupato kei te korero to hoa rangatira ki a koe me te whakarongo ki a raatau kia pai ai te mohio kei te rongohia ratau. Ka taea e koe te whakaatu i to aro ma te waiho noa i a koe e mahi ana kia aro atu ki a raatau korero. Ka taea ranei e koe te whakaatu i to aro ma te whakahoki ano i nga korero a to hoa ki a koe ake kupu hei whakaatu i te maarama ki a koe me pehea o raatau korero ki a koe.
Whakakitea to hoa rangatira he mea nui ki a koe. I a koe e korerorero ana mo tetahi mea, whakamatauria nga kupu kino ki nga kupu pai.
Tukuna kia mohio kei te mauruuru koe mo o raatau takoha
Ko te marena te hononga e tino whirinaki ana ki te aroha me te aroha o tetahi ki tetahi. Kaore e tika ana kia aata tohu koe kia pai ai te whakaatu i to maioha ki to hoa, kaua ko nga tohu atawhai iti hei whakapakari i tenei hononga.
Kia mohio to hoa kei te kite koe i o raatau takoha ana ka koa koe ki a raatau mo a raatau mahi. Whakamohio atu ki a raatau kaore koe e aro ke ki a raatau. Whakaatuhia to manukanuka me to aroha mo ratou. Ka taea hoki e koe te mahi i a raatau mahi mo nga mahi o te whare. Rapua he huarahi kia mohio ai raatau kei reira koe.
Ko te whakawhitiwhiti whakaaro pai te mea nui hei whakapiki i nga marenatanga hari me te pai. He pai ake te whakapai ake i te taatai e mau ana to marena i roto i nga wa pai me nga wa uaua. Heoi, kia mohio ko nga pukenga korerorero whaihua kaore pea i ahu mai i te katoa.
No reira me mahi e koe o pukenga korero me te whanake haere i te waa. Ahakoa ko nga taangata katoa e korerorero ana ki a raatau ano, he mea nui kia whakauruhia e koe nga korero pai ki roto i to marena. I roto i te poto, kia kaha ki te whakarongo kaha, te ngawari ki a koe ano, me te maioha ki nga mahi a to hoa rangatira maau.